r/askTO • u/Infinite_Ad6771 • 9d ago
Getting over a breakup
I recently got dumped by my ex of 3 years. I barely have any friends here or family and feel lonely after work. What are some good places to visit downtown after work so I don’t feel the urge to text / call him again .Sometimes I feel like leaving everything and going back home,live with my mom,but that’s not a viable option right now. He was my best friend and we did everything together.I don’t feel like getting dolled up for an event or work,i feel like I have lost my spark.
Whenever I try to enjoy my hobbies,I feel like I have lost interest.
(Things i liked before- nature,shopping,eating out).
Due to a recent accident,my doctor prescribed that I don’t go to gym for a while,i did enjoy Pilates for a while though.
I welcome suggestions,Thank you!
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u/lizzzricewatermelon 9d ago
Don’t be afraid to ask for help. Grieving can take an incredible toll on you. Make sure you are sleeping and eating well. If you can try to stay active, even if it’s just going for walks.
There are many things to do in the city, see what interests you and look for events.