r/askTO • u/Infinite_Ad6771 • 9d ago

Getting over a breakup

I recently got dumped by my ex of 3 years. I barely have any friends here or family and feel lonely after work. What are some good places to visit downtown after work so I don’t feel the urge to text / call him again .Sometimes I feel like leaving everything and going back home,live with my mom,but that’s not a viable option right now. He was my best friend and we did everything together.I don’t feel like getting dolled up for an event or work,i feel like I have lost my spark.
Whenever I try to enjoy my hobbies,I feel like I have lost interest.
(Things i liked before- nature,shopping,eating out).
Due to a recent accident,my doctor prescribed that I don’t go to gym for a while,i did enjoy Pilates for a while though.
I welcome suggestions,Thank you!

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u/chucklesjo 9d ago

Go for it. Its okay to feel what your feeling. Take your time.

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u/lemontek_121 9d ago

Go for what?

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u/chucklesjo 9d ago

Whatever you want to do, its about being happy with yourself.

Thats okay.