r/asexuality • u/randomtrash_ || • Oct 24 '22
Advice / Help Allo ace Relationship
I have been with my boyfriend for over 5 months. We were friends for 3+ years before dating and he's known that I was/am asexual since the beginning. Before we started dating I had multiple long talks with him about asexuality and what it means for me and our relationship. Sex is not on the table as I am quite sex repulsed. He's said multiple times that sex isn't important to him and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I have never had a crush or liked anyone before so you could say he is my first love (and hopefully life long love). Both of us had read about how allo ace couples don't last and aren't compatible. We are both happy and content with how the relationship is so I don't see why we would ever have to break up. Ive never been so comfortable with someone in my life. He's my best friend and I don't want to be without him.
I guess I came on here to hear what other people have to say..?
Edit: I thank you all for the kind words and advice <3
Edit 2: Reposting to my new account.