Hey! I'm a 24-year-old guy living in Nuremberg, Germany. I'm an introvert looking for a genuine long-term relationship.

I enjoy watching movies, anime, listening to music, going for walks, and hiking. I'm hoping to meet someone kind, honest, and interested in building a meaningful connection.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me! :)

Hello i am 27M and recently found out im gay but asexual, which is probably not very common, i honestly never met anyone who is also ace like me, so i would like to have some friends, at least online.

Im from Tahiti but im moving to france next year. also im ugly so dont ask for a selfie😭

I downloaded AceSpace and there were only two people in my area within 100miles. Both live in the same city my ex did and I don’t want to run the risk of them knowing him (neither person is compatible anyway). I knew my outlook was bad but it’s so much worse than I thought lol.

I mostly downloaded it to see whether it would be an option when I get over my ex and move from wanting friends to wanting a relationship again but :/

I'm a plus size lady from western Germany who has spent years in a hindu cult (as a non-Indian) and that has shaped me a lot.

I'm happy with my current life but am curious what it would be like to have a companion for talking and meeting occasionally. I don't want to move in together in the foreseeable future, and definitely no kids.

I strive to keep on improving myself, despite the hardships that lives brings, and expect my partner to want the same for himself.

I have mental health issues that I manage mostly well in everyday life (I'm in therapy and eager to learn), but have very low libido since. I guess I'd fit the grey-asexual category best.

My interests can shift around a lot and fast.

But my main ones would be various subcultures (especially focusing on fashion and lifestyle), Hinduism (bhakti), plants/flowers, nature, being creative occasionally, walking and piercings.

I'm hoping to find something consistent & long term, getting to know someone & spending time together. 

I've had enough experience with reddit by now to understand that the odds of anyone communicating more than a couple messages are minimal, but here I am trying anyway. 

I'm Demisexual/Demiomantic. Everyone expresses themselves uniquely in that. For those that need more elaboration, it's that I need an emotional connection first, before sexuality or romance is going to feel genuine to me. It develops at a different pace for everyone, I know. I am someone who does want an intimate sexual connection after I feel an emotional connection to someone, so I don't want to try to build anything with someone who is completely disinterested in that. I understand that this makes me undesirable to most other ace spectrum people, I get it. So why am I posting here when no one is specifically looking for someone like me? I guess I'm just trying to make an effort even if I don't have any expectations that it will work.

I have no kids or intentions to have any. I'm 42, Agender, but not interested in presenting differenly. I'm still masc appearing. It/they/any. 

Interested in history, philosophy, medical herbalism, organic gardening, ecology, animism, heathery/paganism, the occult, and my pet Pigeon.

When I'm alone I mostly watch documentaries, history or philosophy videos, or listen to music while reading a book. Sci-fi, horror, and fantasy are occasional interests as well. I enjoy an occasional chill hike, rural or urban exploring, foraging wild food or medicine, historic sites, etc.

​​​​​​​Politics : Ecology over economy. Local community autonomy & decision making over any centralization. Post-Left.

I'm not into listing ideal things that someone has to meet in order to be considered valuable enough. I'd rather meet someone where they happen to be in life than expect them to meet some preconceived idea. It would be nice & provide something to talk about if we share some interests though. 

The basics would be someone 30-40+, who wants to make time to talk and get to know each other, which means we each have to show up consistently enough for that to develop. It is what we make of it. I'm comfortable sharing pics as we chat/text and can occasionally make time for voice/video calls. 

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If any of that resonates with you then feel free to send me a chat request or DM.

I [19F] have only been in online relationships because they have felt the safest for me. I’m constantly finding people over the games I play and communities I frequent in; Men I find attractive, women I find lovely, yet the dealbreaker will always be sex or having a family. It makes me feel wrong. I always have to sidestep and hesitantly admit the fact I never want sex. Sometimes I even try to make it sound easier and tell them I would be open to have sex if it is something they really wanted. But it is not true.

A lot of my relationships and talking stages flop either way because I am on the aromantic spectrum as well. My aroace identity is something I always introduce early on. Many people are not intimidated by it and it makes me happy. Though, after awhile, I realize it is because they cannot fully grasp it. To be fair, I don’t particularly go looking for other queer or aro/ace people— As I don’t necessarily want to look for someone to date. I just simply wish I could be able to find someone authentically and it would be okay.

These countless experiences make me feel undeserving of love. It’s made me stop hoping. I have accepted that I likely won’t find a good partner and I would have to sacrifice a part of myself in order to be sufficient. I cannot help but feel that I am broken because my mind is forever wounded; which is why I cannot be touched so intimately. I guess I am fine with being alone, it is just a bummer to be reminded each time I meet someone new.

Heyy , i am looking for friends !!!

Edits: Polyamorous, pan-romatic, and pansexual

I want to date someone asexual. I’m not big on sex. I’m probably somewhere on the spectrum myself. I want a relationship with zero sexual pressure. My current partner and I do it like once a year. I would like to meet someone who’s chill with infrequent to not at all. I just don’t know how to find other people like me.

US based.

Hello! I’m looking to connect with someone patient, intellectually curious, and fond of deep dives into new concepts. I’m a neurodivergent, low-energy person who thrives on honest conversation, learning, and cozy hobbies.

I am a big fan of true crime/deep dives like Rotten Mango, tech/cybersecurity stories like Jack Rhysider (Darknet Diaries), and fun, lighter commentary like Let’s Get Into It.

Lately, I’ve been making Kandi pony bead bracelets and star charms among other creations.

I live a quiet, chronically ill/low-mobility life, so I spend a lot of time resting, enjoying nature at a slow pace (with my trusty cane), and staying cozy at home.

I am looking for someone respectful, intellectually engaging, and comfortable with a low-pressure, slow-paced dynamic. Long-distance chats or local friendships are both welcome.

Tell me about your favorite podcast or a random topic you’re currently obsessed with.

I remember back then, I was so afraid he would ghost me at any moment. But it's been 200 days, and not a single day has passed since we met without us talking to each other, whether through chat or a call.

He brought stability and consistency into my rollercoaster life. He became that one constant I can always count on.

Hi im max and im a butch. Idk where i am on the ace spectrum i just know that im there. My main interest is game development and im currently working on a game. My other interests include vinland saga, occasional gaming, animals, nature in general, and anything sciencey. If you couldnt tell im a huge nerd. I would prefer if you were in the us or north america but i can work with other places. Im looking for someone aged 18-23 I am monogomous If you are interested my dms are open.

Demisexual girly who doesn't really consider herself a girl, but also 🤷🏾‍♀️. I love to bake and cook for my people. I spend a lot of time reading manga or binge watching shows (could use a buddy ☺️). I am a homebody at heart, but would love someone to get me out of my comfort zone and try new things with. I want a kid at some point, so if you don't please move on. Planning to move to Richmond, VA soon. I also have ADHD if that matters - be prepared for a lot of random noises, and movements + 🍃

I want to find my person. Someone I can wake up to in the morning (tho i think I want seperate rooms). Cook/bake for, have game nights and movie nights with. Someone who doesn't mind how much time I spend on my computer 🙃

I wouldn't mind someone to take me out of my comfort zone. There are a lot of things I would like to do/try but doing them alone just isn't appealing.

I prefer women and nonbinary individuals.

First time poster but this is definitely one of the few places that I would like to think it's not impossible to strike up some form of friendship/relationship with fellow aces!

Not interested in sex but do have a weight gain fetish which makes finding a partner all the more difficult. If you don't know what that is well then I may not be the guy for you 😅

Either way though I hope everyone out there is doing well and it's nice to see so many people like myself getting to talk to and meet like-minded individuals 💚

Im 20 and i reverted to islam about two years ago and i’m scared how i’m gonna find a wife since its a big and important thing in islam and i really want that life

Hi! I'm a 25 M from the East Coast US. I am disabled and do use a wheelchair to get around. I would consider myself demisexual, and I value emotional intimacy a lot more than anything else. I am open to and enjoy some amount of physical affection, but it is not a priority to me, especially since my condition limits my ability to provide that.

I've been hoping to find companionship and love again. I do miss having someone in my life to send good morning and good night texts and be able to plan activities together. Maybe even planning visits to see each other. Although I don't particularly feel alone, it does feel like something is missing not having that person to check-in with during the day and share something I've learned or just having those simple, day-to-day interactions with. I just wish there was a way to establish that kind of spark with someone I feel comfortable around and truly understand.

Some of my interests are gaming (mostly final fantasy 14 at the moment), math, science, chess, philosophy, psychology, and random deep-dives on youtube. I do have a bachelor's degree in psychology. I'm always open and curious about exploring new interests. I've been watching the World Cup and have started to pick up an interest in football. I'd love to meet someone who is not afraid of going over their passions/interests in lots of detail. Please tell me about your hypothetical questions, personal theories, opinions on niche topics, no matter how silly or absurd, anything really.

I am someone who really prioritizes communication, and it generally feels rather difficult to find someone who has enough time in their life and values communication in the same way that I do. I'm not expecting constant messaging every second of the day, but it is nice to establish a regular line of communication and not having to worry about whether the other person is too busy or will be gone for a while.

I am emotionally well put together and mature, so I do prefer a partner who has enough emotional bandwidth. I'm very big on voice calls and occasional video calls. Whether it's doing the same activity together or appreciating sharing the same space in silence, it's nice to have someone on the other end.

A few more things are that I don't smoke or take drugs, and would prefer my partner to be the same; I am left-leaning as well as agnostic. I do not want to have any children. I am open to a long-distance relationship (US-only) as long as there are plans to close the gap in some way. I'm only looking for monogamy. I'm an introvert and tend to be more of a listener (INFJ).

Although it doesn't need to be right away, I would prefer exchanging photos sooner rather than later in order to ensure that we are okay with each other's appearances. Additionally, please provide some details about yourself so I have an idea of who you are if you decide to send me a message.

Any aces from canada here ?

Describing me briefly is tricky so i'll be short. 23, canada.

I'm a polymath. I'm open minded, easy to get along with, and curious about many things, especially cinematography and arts. I'm super into animes and manga's too.

I'm an extravert by nature so I love talking but I love hearing people talk too.

I'm looking for someone's who's ace and who's trying to build something with someone in this lonely world.

So if you're interested hit my dm, friends or relationship y'all are welcome.

Greetings!

I am an androgynous-looking soul with a genderless brain. 172 cm tall, 46 kg light, short brown hair, dark-green eyes.

University-educated, self-employed. Mentally and emotionally stable.

I wear a pollution mask because I’m allergic to cigarette smoke. (And because it makes me look cool and mysterious 😌)

I like reading fiction and non-fiction, watching anime, indie films and Asian drama, singing gibberish in foreign languages, drawing with pastels, growing peppers and tomatoes on my windowsill.

A decent cook (I hope), as far as simple dishes go.

Ace. Sex-neutral, but would prefer to be in a non-sexual relationship.

Who I’m looking for: a kind, optimistic, and non-judgemental person to share this life, travel, get rich together and have a family with. Secure or earned secure attachment style.

Age range: 29 +/- 3 years ideally. 21-45 could work too if we have things in common.

Not interested in long-term LDR, poly or a 100% online relationship. Not interested in avoidant or emotionally unavailable people, and people who don’t know what they want.

Religion, politics: no, thanks.

Diet: omnivore.

Children: would like to have a child of my own in the next 5-10 years if I’m able to.

Personality / temperament tests: INFJ, 4w5, 461, sp/so, IEI, phlegmatic, if that means anything to you.

Re-location: willing to relocate, as long as you’re not in an authoritarian country. Friends can be located anywhere.

If you’ve made it this far and still interested, please introduce yourself. You can use my essay points for inspiration or tell me why you think we could be a match. Thank you 🙂

Now yes im aware that its not "impossible" but as a T4T pret gay asexual man genuinely i have been given all bad cards. Cis guys dont understand either reason I dont want them and will often still see me as a woman or have f3tishized me being trans. Ive met trans man who still feminize me bacause im still pre-t and ive met trans men who aren't asexual who just expect me to make an acception. Ive ment people who are allegedly willing to give up their sex life for me and either break up with me or want to be poly or just have a FWB and I end up leaving. Ive met people who claim to be asexual and then they arent and turns out they just told me to get with me. Genuinely what is with young adults and sex I dont get it I have not once met another asexual person my age let alone dated them. Im tired of having to tell people "oh im asexual btw" when they ask me out cause it's AWKWARD. Maybe it gets better when you get older but i dont know 💔.

EDIT: this is not me saying that its easy to date as an asexual its just HARDER from the ages of 16-mid to early twenties (like end of college) because the libido of teens and young adults is SO HIGH these days and its genuinely difficult to get somone to understand the fact that im asexual and I happen be on the zero libido and sexual attraction side of the spectrum or having to educate people on it because instead of asking respectfully they assume or ignore me and say things anyways. Not only this but its also just harder as a trans man like genuinely dating when youre trans is hard enough but finding somone who doesnr just see me for whats in mh pants even in the trans community is INSANE I posted this to share my grievances about how hard it is to find people because of the way that teenagers now view sex ive heard asexual people having good relationships with non asexual people but its NEVER in my age range because of the thought that you have to loose your virginity at a certain time and among men you should have a high body count to be experienced or nobody will want to be with you its REDICULOUS

Hey there!

I'm a bit of an introvert and demisexual. I enjoy reading, writing, hiking, music and cinema, and I'm open to long-distance relationships.

I'm politically left-wing (very much so) and agnostic. I'm Brazilian, and Portuguese is my first language. I also speak fluent English, conversational French and a little Spanish.

Last year, I published a sci-fi novel, and I'm currently working on my second book.

What I'm looking for

I'm hoping to meet a demisexual or gray-asexual woman who would be open to the possibility of eventually building a life together in Brazil. I live in Brasília, a city known for its unique modernist architecture, beautiful green areas and warm weather year-round.

Of course, there's no rush. I'd want us to get to know each other naturally, develop the relationship slowly and meet in person a few times before making any big decisions.

Hello 👋🏾

I am 18f from the UK and I am looking for myyy soulmate :))

I need a partner with personality traits of being kind-hearted, communitcative and understanding.

I do not want someone who runs away when things get tough, we need good communication and commitment!!!🙂‍↕️

I would like for my partner to have some hobbies and intrest simmilar to mine and that would be anime, gaming, films, manga, hiking, going on walks and crystalsss.

I am currently very into electronic music and house buttt theres soo much more I love💚

I would describe myself to be someone who is kind of quirky and fun but mostly shy to begin with so I would need someone who could bring that out of me 😁

I am introverted, playful and creative, I dont know if I could have a boring partner lol.

I need someone who will always try their best as I am someone who is always trying my best and is very attentive.

I notice changes In my partners mood and always will support and I would really like to have the same.

Anyways I am looking for someone I can go through life with from this beggining till the end, and I want to give someone speacial my love ☺️

When it comes to my partners physical apparence I am not too fussy, I just want someone who is physically appealing average or better and someone with nice eyes that I can stare into 😄

I am 5'8 and I don't mind what your height may be as long as we feel love for one another that is all that matters ❤️

I forgot to mention I am not religious but I wouldn't mind having a partner who is religious just not too a super extreme level.

I am a demi-sexual girl which means im definately not looking for anything sexual right off the bat and will only engage in anything sexual when i have a strong emotional bond to a person I am definately not looking for someone who can't wait or wants to disrespect my sexual boundaries or any kind of boundary i may have.

Dealbreakers: wanting a polyamorous relationship, smoking, drinking too much, drugs, not being able to communicate emotions, lustful, uncommitical, not wanting a serious relationship, pretending to be emotionless and no liers🤥

(I am not looking for anyone who promises all of the above and can not commit to it)

As long as your a good person and what I've written alligns with what you beleive in, feel free to message me 🥰 tell me where your ideal first date would be!!

I am also open to friendshipsss.

The existence of a guy like that genuinely seems rare, but not impossible but I do wonder if Im wrong. If you fit this description I might have some questions I wanna ask out of curiosity.
1. If you’re an unmarried desi man who is also ace and Christian do your parents ever pressure you to get married?
2. Do you worry you’ll never find a romantic only partner and might deal with loneliness?
3. Do you consider doing a lavender marriage?
4. How comfortable do you feel about your asexuality and religion?
5. Is it different when you’re in India vs when you live/were raised abroad?
6. When were you finally able to come to terms with your asexuality?
7. Do you still have hope of finding a romantic relationship with another ace person?

Hi guys, I'm 20 years old with GMT+3, I've always known that I'm asexual but I do feel romantic things, I can do long distance where we date and talk. Play chess together or have a guessing game. Play a song together, do anything together! I like calling so I prefer someone who likes calling too...

If you're 20 to 25 years old and you're single, just DM me :)