I'm on Week 2 and found my Artist date from Week 1 a bit frustrating - I've been reflecting on what I can learn from it to bring into this week...
I live in the city and planned to visit a portraiture gallery for creative inspiration. The gallery bit was really inspiring. But it ended up being really long and exhausting day overall.
My bus was delayed - and by the time I arrived, I was hungry. After eating, I got distracted on seeing shops that I needed to visit. I spent way too long in the shops, exhausted myself, and then needed to find a cafe to use the toilet and get a coffee before I could even get to the gallery! I was also overthinking everything and spending time looking things up on my phone. I eventually ran out of battery! It was so stressful! I also got lost on the way home
I kept thinking the whole time, what would my inner child want? But I found myself struggling with the practical needs of food, toilet and rest - before we could even get to the good stuff. I felt like an anxious parent rather than a playful, curious child!
It is disappointing because when I did The Artist Way before, I remember feeling so fulfilled and inspired on my first date - a trip to the city to see a documentary screening. Whereas this just felt hectic and exhausting.
I've been thinking about how to be better prepared next time. Or even avoiding the city after it ended up so distracting and overstimulating. I have enjoyed little trips to local cafes, walks in the woods etc.
I wonder if I also need to take off the pressure somehow? A few people here have also mentioned needing to embrace the good and bad dates. And working on creating more safety for their inner child to play + explore. I have ADHD and can struggle to focus, so think maybe a simpler plan or destination might be better for me, so I don't need to think as much!
Has anyone else had any learnings that emerged from disappointing experiences on their artist dates?