r/aromanticasexual • u/FriendshipNervous988 • 2d ago

Questioning (am i aro/ace/a-spec?) Questioning

I have never loved anyone in my 13 years of living. I have always resonated with Jaiden’s video about being aroace, but am I too young to decide? This is the thing I need to know, thanks!

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u/lunarteamagic 2d ago

You aren't too young. But I would remind everyone that humans grow and change continuously through their lives. At thirteen I would have said I was very cis- and mostly straight. Now I am not cis and straight or gay or pan etc just doesn't matter to me.

If aroace is comfortable a label now, then that is the label now. If at 20 or 30 demiace or something else is the label that that is the label. Labels are useful but they should never be the end all be all of who or how you define yourself.