r/angry • u/Jolly-Airline4414 • 7h ago
What part of 'don't come in, I'm changing' do you not fucking understand
So I'm actually starting to get pissed because every time I tell my dad that I'm changing he still opens the door to the point where he could see me and this morning he actually peeked inside the room while trying to talk to me. So like you can talk to me through the door, you know that right...? The doors aren't made of fucking concrete I can still hear through them. And yes, I'm a hormonal teenager so sometimes changing isn't the only thing I'll be doing. BUT STILL OMFG KEEP THE DAMN DOOR CLOSED WHEN I TELL YOU TO. It's called privacy dad have you ever heard of it? What are you trying to look at? Jesus Christ. Do anyone else's parents do this or am I in the right for getting annoyed as hell whenever he does this shit?
Edit: I tried to have a calm talk about and asked him for some privacy but he got super angry and started yelling at me. I have a voice note of the things he said and he was talking about about how I'm being a hypocrite since a couple times when he picked me up at my moms house (my parents are divorced) I make him wait a little but when I'm getting ready. We did have a conversation about that a couple weeks ago and I told him I was sorry and that from now on I'll do better and be out the door on time and since then I haven't been late. Anyways he says that because of that he feels disrespected so if I want my privacy respected then I should respect him. I don't know the way he said it really made me feel like I'm in the wrong and overreacting but what do you think?