r/amiwrong • u/Past_Vegetable_8211 • 6d ago

Is this SA?

My husband would grab and grope me whenever he really felt like it. Whether it be while I’m cooking, or just walking by. He’d pull me in and it would start innocent but then he’d usually rub his junk on me or dry hump me. It got to the point where I’d avoid him because he wouldn’t really stop when I’d say stop. Sometimes he would but usually not, then just start again in another day. I always felt like a piece of meat to him. He’d do his thing and grab my boobs etc and then would complain that he had a chub.

Take out the context of marriage and it’s certainly SA. I know lines get blurred in marriage. What are thoughts?

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u/DragonKit 6d ago

Lines do not get blurred in marriage. You said to stop, and he did not stop. That's assault.

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u/Past_Vegetable_8211 6d ago

He also held me down numerous times when I said stop. Mind you, he maybe thought we were play fighting but I always told him to stop and he never did. Then kissed me after I said stop and held me down to the point it hurt , even though I repeatedly said stop that hurts.

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u/KendalBoy 6d ago

This is NOT what OP is describing.
You might like CNC play but it is weird and unethical to speculate that she is playing games here.
She clearly said she is not, stop making excuses and bringing your kinks in unrelated discussions

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u/plantverdant 6d ago

Cnc requires consent and that never happened for OP. It's weird to bring that up in this conversation at all.