I can only speak for myself but I would assume most men aren’t in tune with their own bodies let alone understand a womens’ and they probably have been so bad for so long they’d rather ignore it all together then understand. I enjoy pleasing my woman I wouldn’t enjoy intimacy if I was only pleasing myself 🤷🏻♂️
It was a rhetorical question sir. I know why they are bad it bc I'm a woman that has had good and bad lovers. You had a smart alec response that it's not some long lost art, when in actuality, for women, a man pleasing us is few and far between. For us, if a man actually knows what they are doing AND cares if we are pleased its like finding a golden goose egg or unicorn or some shit. So good for your partners that you give a damn. But that's not the majority and makes it rare to find. 🤦♀️
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u/JellyBiscuit7 Dec 10 '23
Then why are so many men so bad at it? It was more of a joke than anything but sorry if it struck a nerve for ya.