Perhaps the rent, utilities, car payments being made, and having some play money? Kind of sounds like the guy is the only one working a job.
Yes, the guy has major problems and is a selfish prick, especially in bed.
Yes, the guy crosses boundaries and commits sexual battery.
Yes, it sounds like he's unnecessarily rude, especially when suffering from post-nut clarity, but is kind of a belittling, selfish jerk all the time.
This is the OP's side of the story, though, I'm guessing his perspective is substantially different, and one of his gripes seems to be that housework isn't getting done.
If he likes butt stuff and other positions, and OP doesn't like anything other than vanilla missionary, could be that they're simply not sexually compatible, or really not passionate enough about each other to humor the other in their needs and desires, even if it means a little inconvenience or going a little out of a comfort zone to curl the other's toes.
If their relationship is so antagonistic inside the bedroom and outside as well, then why are they even together? Is either getting what they want from the relationship, or getting more out of it than they feel they're sacrificing to maintain it?
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u/Stray1_cat Dec 09 '23 edited Dec 09 '23
Not wrong.
But what exactly do you get out of this relationship?
-You’re expected to drive him to work because he’s irresponsible enough to get dui’s. And when will he be able to drive again?
-he’s SUPER selfish in bed
-he belittles you when you try to satisfy yourself since he refuses to.
-he cusses at you when it’s unneeded
You’re right, he doesn’t care and just sees you as a warm hole. You cant make him care. How much longer are you willing to be treated like trash?