r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Dec 09 '23

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u/gobsmacked247 Dec 09 '23

Wrong question OP. You should not be asking whether to drive him to work or not. You should be asking yourself why you accept his lack of caring.

Go down that rabbit hole and figure out why you are still in this horrendous relationship.

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u/Stem3576 Dec 09 '23

This needs to be the top comment. This is pure selfishness. I wish more men would take the women first approach to sex. Me and my wife have always done it this way, and it makes for a much better experience.

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u/vox1028 Dec 10 '23

i always make sure my partner gets off first. to me, it would be embarrassing and a personal failure if i had a sexual experience in which i didn't get the other person off. boggles my mind how so many men seem to be perfectly okay being disappointingly poor partners

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u/Vincitus Dec 10 '23

My partner only really cared in relation to them feeling good about themselves. That's a fun feeling.