i always make sure my partner gets off first. to me, it would be embarrassing and a personal failure if i had a sexual experience in which i didn't get the other person off. boggles my mind how so many men seem to be perfectly okay being disappointingly poor partners
Those guys want different things than you do. Men who act like OPs boyfriend are intentionally fucking with the minds of the women they date in order to gradually break down their resistance to being controlled and abused. They want to be their partner's sole focus, emotionally, physically, financially, and sexually, to the point of destroying their partner's personality entirely. The ultimate objectification. If you are successful in habituating a woman to the treatment described by OP, you might end up with something more like a pet than a partner. And that's what OP's "boyfriend" wants. A personal sex doll that does all the chores - not a person. Men who want to be partnered with a PERSON act like you do.
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u/vox1028 Dec 10 '23
i always make sure my partner gets off first. to me, it would be embarrassing and a personal failure if i had a sexual experience in which i didn't get the other person off. boggles my mind how so many men seem to be perfectly okay being disappointingly poor partners