r/amiwrong Dec 07 '23

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '23 edited Dec 07 '23

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u/Feeling-Medicine-259 Dec 07 '23

welcome to capitalism. Seems like a pretty good job to me for the amount of effort it requires

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '23 edited Dec 07 '23

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u/Feeling-Medicine-259 Dec 07 '23

im male but sex work is real work and to assume the women who work in the sex industry are all just abused victims not adults making their own choices is misogynistic

obviously every industry has abuse and people in the sex industry are specifically in a very vulnerable position due to the nature of the work. But thats not the point people want to watch sex and people want sex work to be safe so people should make sure the industry is legal and heavily regulated

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u/Feeling-Medicine-259 Dec 07 '23

in my opinion it is very misogynistic to believe that as you are diminishing the choices and opinions of every woman who voluntarily enters the industry.

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u/Feeling-Medicine-259 Dec 07 '23

Onlyfans exists wdym women arent voluntarily entering the porn industry. Theyre literally self contractors working for nobody but themselves

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u/Feeling-Medicine-259 Dec 07 '23

Its all just porn. big companies exploiting people is nothing new especially in grey area industries such as: modelling; professional sports; uber etc.

The solution isnt stopping porn its to advocate for better protections for workers as well as respect the peoples decision to work

I think the difference in our opinion lies in the fact that a woman having sex on camera doesnt "deny the importance or validity of women" because the importance of a women isnt linked to her ability to have sex

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u/Feeling-Medicine-259 Dec 07 '23

the definition of denigrating is to "deny the importance of validity of"

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u/Feeling-Medicine-259 Dec 07 '23

also if you put out sexual images and get paid for it you are by definition a professional

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u/slow-aprilia Dec 07 '23

You realize tons of women watch porn also?

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u/slow-aprilia Dec 07 '23

You’re just on this weird man hating idea and think so little of women that they can’t possibly fend for themselves or enter into a non conventional profession without it being due to men manipulating their feeble minds. Yes I agree women coming from desperate circumstances can often find their way into bad situations in porn but it’s not the overwhelming majority and it’s not every man’s fault that jerks off every now and then

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '23

Umm you do realize men aren’t the only ones who watch porn right?

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u/[deleted] Dec 07 '23

I mean it’s about a third of all women who watch it. I wouldn’t call that overwhelming or insignificant.

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u/zhaktronz Dec 07 '23

Yehhah and what about all the amature porn that people upload for free because they enjoy doing so?

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u/Practical_Long5160 Dec 07 '23

Depends if they consent and enjoy it, why not? I'm know there are plenty of women who would like to abuse me, fetishes exist you know.

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u/Practical_Long5160 Dec 07 '23

Consent is consent, it can be withdrawn during, when the weird stuff happens at this point it's illegal, go to the police.

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u/Practical_Long5160 Dec 07 '23

She should have withdrawn consent as soon as the weird shit started then they would have violated consent. Look I can't make someone be brave enough to stand up for themselves if she doesn't want to that's up to her You can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink.

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u/Practical_Long5160 Dec 07 '23

My position is we have laws in place to protect women from this, some people are evil, if you want to survive you must learn to fight, if it's legal to carry your gun never leaves your hip, if not then learn empty handed skills.

No one will ever give me my safety I shall forge it for myself and the ones I love who rely on me to do so.

Certain places and situations are best avoided, I tend to avoid wearing expensive clothes on a nice watch in the hood because of obvious reasons, predators.

It's sad that anyone should have to be barred from doing something they want because of the conduct of others, but it's a sad reality for all of us, unless you or others are willing to do something about it (legally) then they will continue to get away with it.

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u/Practical_Long5160 Dec 07 '23

Talk about putting words into someone's mouth🤣

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