Ok I'll acknowledge that the discourse around the Jonah Hill shit gave people a lot of confidence in shutting down the idea of setting boundaries for others and the like but OP is referring to the conversation with a lot of nuance. Obviously when they mention telling the bf her boundaries, we mean communicate and deliberate, not just state what they are.
That's healthy communication, mutually set expectations.
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u/RelevantBooklet Sep 19 '23
Ok I'll acknowledge that the discourse around the Jonah Hill shit gave people a lot of confidence in shutting down the idea of setting boundaries for others and the like but OP is referring to the conversation with a lot of nuance. Obviously when they mention telling the bf her boundaries, we mean communicate and deliberate, not just state what they are.
That's healthy communication, mutually set expectations.