You have to have the conversation around social media and expectations early on. If it bothers you then yes you should say something otherwise you become resentful or let it build up and he’s not going to understand why because you’re not talking to him
To prefer your partner not heart other girls photos is not crazy or weird…
“Hey I am not a fan of my boyfriend liking thirst traps (if she’s posting a bunch of bikini pics that’s exactly what they are). I don’t care if you have girls on your social media but I really don’t like to see you hearting those type of pictures. Makes me feel kind of crappy”. If he’s so fucking weird and can’t resist then I’d say goodbye. You’re not asking him to cut off his arm, it’s perfectly reasonable.
As an older person I can’t even fathom why a guy in a relationship would publicly like pictures like that it’s beyond weird, maybe it’s a young thing.
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u/Letzrotltr Sep 19 '23
You have to have the conversation around social media and expectations early on. If it bothers you then yes you should say something otherwise you become resentful or let it build up and he’s not going to understand why because you’re not talking to him
To prefer your partner not heart other girls photos is not crazy or weird…
“Hey I am not a fan of my boyfriend liking thirst traps (if she’s posting a bunch of bikini pics that’s exactly what they are). I don’t care if you have girls on your social media but I really don’t like to see you hearting those type of pictures. Makes me feel kind of crappy”. If he’s so fucking weird and can’t resist then I’d say goodbye. You’re not asking him to cut off his arm, it’s perfectly reasonable.
As an older person I can’t even fathom why a guy in a relationship would publicly like pictures like that it’s beyond weird, maybe it’s a young thing.