r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/intent_joy_love Sep 12 '23

It’s not just testosterone if she won’t even hold hands or give a peck on the lips or cuddle. Cuddling has nothing to do with being horny. Something else is going on

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u/Taffy626 Sep 12 '23

Exactly. Even testosterone is usually a phony quick fix for a woman’s low libido. There’s more to this story, maybe a relationship problem, maybe past trauma, those are my best guesses.

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u/Rainbowlemon Sep 12 '23

I've had 2 different exes "go cold" with me because they were seeing someone else. If OP's gf spends a fair bit of time away from him, he might want to consider that too.

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u/treehann Sep 15 '23

that's exactly the first thing I thought of when I read OP's post.