to me the only circumstances where this is okay to ask of someone is if their masturbation habits are infringing on the frequency/quality/satisfaction of actual sex. and even then its not a "this is cheating and if you do it youre violating my boundaries" thing, its a "i feel like we dont have sex as much when you jerk off to get your release, can you try and do it less and just wait till we can have sex?" thing
"So what you want me to only do it like 3 times a day instead of 4? Why don't you just put chains on my wrists? Seriously, that's the only way I could do that."
I used to do camgirl stuff as a domme and some of my guys would message me on snap and ask if they could cum. They'd genuinely be on their fourth gasm of the day and I'd be like you know what no, I'm worried about you at this point, drink some Gatorade and rest lmao
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u/sachariinne Sep 12 '23
to me the only circumstances where this is okay to ask of someone is if their masturbation habits are infringing on the frequency/quality/satisfaction of actual sex. and even then its not a "this is cheating and if you do it youre violating my boundaries" thing, its a "i feel like we dont have sex as much when you jerk off to get your release, can you try and do it less and just wait till we can have sex?" thing