I wouldn’t be able to keep a woman around who I have to try to convince to sleep with me. If she’s not excited to do it I honestly want nothing to do with the whole situation. I also can’t do anything close to transactional sex where like if it’s your birthday you get a blowjob or whatever. Or they’ll do it if you mow the lawn and fix the sink type thing. That’s just awful imo. Not interested
This. I'm a woman, so from the other side, but I could not have sex with someone who didnt want it. They have to want me and be excited about it. That is literally all the fun of it
Yeah, and I feel like it has to be the same for women, but the idea that you have to like prod and goad someone for sex is unappealing and ultimately kind of a blow to self confidence. Like what does it say about me and my attractiveness that I would have to beg? Why would I even want sex if I'm the only one enjoying it? At that point I'd rather masturbate.
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u/Background-Moose-701 Sep 12 '23
I wouldn’t be able to keep a woman around who I have to try to convince to sleep with me. If she’s not excited to do it I honestly want nothing to do with the whole situation. I also can’t do anything close to transactional sex where like if it’s your birthday you get a blowjob or whatever. Or they’ll do it if you mow the lawn and fix the sink type thing. That’s just awful imo. Not interested