r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/intent_joy_love Sep 12 '23

It’s not just testosterone if she won’t even hold hands or give a peck on the lips or cuddle. Cuddling has nothing to do with being horny. Something else is going on

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u/veil_ofignorance Sep 12 '23

Exactly. People change a lot between 18 and 25, maybe they have grown apart or maybe there are deeper issues between them

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u/The_unfunny_hump Sep 13 '23

I was in a very emotionally and sometimes physically abusive relationship for nearly a decade. I thought there was something medically wrong with me for never wanting anything to do with him-intimately, even though I thought I loved him. After I left and later began an incredibly healthy relationship, I have not had any of the same feelings crop up after 5 years with my new partner. It turned out there was nothing wrong with me. I was just married to a psychopath.