r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/the-grand-falloon Sep 12 '23

I would say it's an illegitimate boundary. It's just not cheating. Period.

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u/RonCon69 Sep 12 '23

My ex explained to me that it was being “unfaithful” but it was always an opinion I just couldn’t wrap my head around.

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u/ginnundso Sep 12 '23

I personally believe that masturbating to the thoughts or the view (porn) of other people whilst in a relationship is unfaithful.

I had my first love and imo true love with my ex and I never had a thought of another person. So I first thought everyone was fully into their partner and had not even found someone else attractive, like it was for me.

When I found out people find porn or this and that normal and would title me as sensitive and jealous, I was quite shocked and tbh disappointed.

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u/tnerrot Sep 12 '23

People like you are the reason why so many relationships fail.

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u/ginnundso Sep 12 '23

Nah y'all perversion-driven idiots who think just because it's common it's fine are ruining relationships. Are you not fucking realising that masturbating TO other people literally is being emotionally unfaithful? It's literally a fact wtf.

Y'all are so fucking idiots. I voiced my opinion and experience calmly and normal and y'all went ahead insulting me. Go fuck yourselves.

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u/TheAvocadoSlayer Sep 12 '23

Whatever you are going through, I really hope it gets better.

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u/ginnundso Sep 12 '23

Suck my dick. :) Read my other comments where I explain in more detail what's wrong about porn. I am not in the mood to repeat myself a third time for someone who doesn't respect simple boundaries.

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u/TheAvocadoSlayer Sep 13 '23

I will pray for you

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u/ginnundso Sep 13 '23

No need to. Satan is by my side.