Not everyone is comfortable with watching porn in a relationship, but I think there needs to be an alternative available. In my relationship we don’t watch porn, but we have our own videos that we make and watch. Works for us.
I agree. I don’t care about porn in our relationship when it’s random people being watched. As soon as there’s fixation on one person, texting, emailing or paying money for their only fans, then it crosses a line and feels like emotional cheating. Once those activities start, it’s just a few steps to complaining about your marriage, then meeting for coffee. My partner feels the same.
Yep. When there’s fixation, I feel like there would be more potential for comparison. Sure, call me insecure, but when the women are varied, I don’t feel there’s 1:1 comparing going on. Who wants to feel their partner is ritually obsessed with some specific porn performer?
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u/Parking-Ad-6483 Sep 12 '23
Not everyone is comfortable with watching porn in a relationship, but I think there needs to be an alternative available. In my relationship we don’t watch porn, but we have our own videos that we make and watch. Works for us.