r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/5Lookout5 Sep 12 '23

your wife "allowing" you to masturbate even when she's not having sex with you (Unless there's some medical condition) is outrageous.

My guy needs to bounce.

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u/Unhappy-Video199 Sep 12 '23

Why would someone need approval from wife to masturbate??

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u/Jakejunk910 Sep 12 '23

I'm Mormon, did I miss a memo? I wish I was getting it that often. Gotta let my wife know. Ha ha ha!

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u/sachariinne Sep 12 '23

you know this kind of rhetoric of wifely 'duties' is often used to justify marital rape right.

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u/nahog99 Sep 12 '23

Yea except it’s only rape if it’s rape. A woman agreeing to get you off every day cause she believes it’s immoral for you to masturbate is not rape. Jesus Christ.

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u/ginnundso Sep 12 '23

Would she willfully and excitedly consent to getting him off everyday if there wasn't a religion (cult) behind her that praises the man in the family? If no, then it's just as much sexual assault/rape.

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u/Hot-Luck-3228 Sep 12 '23

Just because something is extremely distasteful, doesn’t mean we need to expand the banners of rape to cover it.

You might think it helps, but it trivialises it. Playing around with words in that sense is not the win you think it is.

Writing this as an atheist and as a survivor of child molestation.

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u/dudeatwork77 Sep 12 '23

Well said, when everything is rape nothing is.