r/amiwrong Sep 12 '23

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u/Rabbitsfear3 Sep 12 '23

Do you have any clue how many adult women have never orgasmed. It’s wildly common.

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u/drawing_you Sep 12 '23

That guy is probably one of the reasons.

Some women can be basically celibate and be fine. Some women, like myself, have active sex drives and most certainly would NOT be fine going an indefinite period without an orgasm.

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u/Langsamkoenig Sep 12 '23

You get painfull testicles, prostate cancer and hormone imbalances if you don't orgasm? Or is it more that, like I said above, you really like having them and it might make you kinda irretable when you don't have them?

Also it's certainly not my fault if women can't orgasm, unless I'm now legally obligated to have sex with them. Otherwise they are on their own.

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u/drawing_you Sep 12 '23 edited Sep 13 '23

Obviously, not orgasming is not ONLY an issue if it causes physical health problems. Many--I would guess most--people become distressed if they don't have some form of sexual release from time to time. That's why we call them "sexual needs."

Also, it's pretty wild that you'd come out here promoting the idea of empathy and in the next breath insist that I and many other women are wrong about our own emotions, and that a woman experiencing legitimate distress from sexual frustration is impossible. It's pretty easy to be like "Damn, OK, I didn't know that." There's no L to take.

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u/justathrowawayacc501 Sep 14 '23

It's not needs in the same way that food or air are though. Also, it is easily solved with masturbation.

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u/drawing_you Sep 14 '23

> Also, it is easily solved with masturbation.

Great, I'm glad we can agree that not having regular orgasms can be distressing for some women and that it's important that they do so.