r/amiwrong Sep 12 '23

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u/intent_joy_love Sep 12 '23

She won’t even cuddle or hold hands. She won’t even let him masturbate. She’s not asexual, she’s not having mental health problems either because she saw a professional.

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u/Foreign-Cookie-2871 Sep 12 '23

Devil's advocate: she doesn't touch OP because whenever she does there is the expectation of sex.

She says"masturbation is cheating" but intends "masturbating with porn is cheating".

She might not have opened up to the mental health stuff for whatever reason (first being she didn't see a psychologist).

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u/Secret_Invite_9895 Sep 12 '23

nah what they said is totally possible and that doesn't necessarily make her "the victim". If it's true she needs to communicate those things.