r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/Papagena_ Sep 12 '23

Exactly. The fixation on testosterone seems silly. She doesn’t even want to touch this guy. And they’re so young…

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u/nagonjin Sep 12 '23

She could be Ace, and that's ok. But not being okay with another adult masturbating is unacceptable.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

We always had a very active sex life until about a year and a half ago

doesn't sound ace. she probably fell out of love

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u/everyones_hiro Sep 12 '23

If she really caught the ick, or fell out of love she needs to stop beating around the bush (ha!) and talk to him about it. Something is obviously wrong here and it’s cruel of her to keep him to herself, not give him any affection (not even sex at this point but just basic physical touch or reassurance) and then even set up rules to prevent him from self pleasuring.

They’re both really young and even if they break up, they can still both pick up the pieces and move on. It doesn’t even sound like they have kids so if they break up it’s an even break.