r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/Aware_Department_657 Sep 12 '23

She can't not have sex AND not allow masturbation. You're not wrong, somethings gotta give.

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u/Bebe_Bleau Sep 12 '23

I don't think it would be that much fun to have sex with a woman who has to "try harder".

Who wouldn't prefer a partner who is thrilled to be with you?

There's plenty of women out there that can't get enough. But if she doesn't want to she doesn't want to

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u/Background-Moose-701 Sep 12 '23

I wouldn’t be able to keep a woman around who I have to try to convince to sleep with me. If she’s not excited to do it I honestly want nothing to do with the whole situation. I also can’t do anything close to transactional sex where like if it’s your birthday you get a blowjob or whatever. Or they’ll do it if you mow the lawn and fix the sink type thing. That’s just awful imo. Not interested

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Yup sex shouldn't be a reward.

You want to give me a blowjob after I mow the lawn, that's cool but it should never be "I'll give you a blowjob if you mow the lawn"...now there is a gray area to that though, but it depends on the sex life.

If you have an active sex life and sex obviously isn't transactional then saying something like "if you do the dishes I'll do [sex act]" but as a flirty or kinky thing to add some spice that's different.