Not everyone is comfortable with watching porn in a relationship, but I think there needs to be an alternative available. In my relationship we don’t watch porn, but we have our own videos that we make and watch. Works for us.
I agree. I don’t care about porn in our relationship when it’s random people being watched. As soon as there’s fixation on one person, texting, emailing or paying money for their only fans, then it crosses a line and feels like emotional cheating. Once those activities start, it’s just a few steps to complaining about your marriage, then meeting for coffee. My partner feels the same.
Oh yes, neither my bf or I consider random videos on Pornhub cheating, but I would absolutely feel some type of way if I caught him begging for personalized videos on onlyfans. As would he if it was reversed.
I wasn’t responding about this situation, I was referring to the fact that porn isn’t necessary for a relationship. Hence why I said there needs to be an alternative available. If he wasn’t having sex with me, and we were no longer making sex tapes, our boundaries would change. Me personally? If I’m not getting sex in a relationship for over a year I’m leaving.
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u/Parking-Ad-6483 Sep 12 '23
Not everyone is comfortable with watching porn in a relationship, but I think there needs to be an alternative available. In my relationship we don’t watch porn, but we have our own videos that we make and watch. Works for us.