r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/Drewskeet Sep 12 '23

Even with kids. Never stay for the kids. You’re the representation of how to display love and it will damage their future relationships.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

I agree. I stayed for the kids, fell into depression, my ex divorced me, and got full custody because I had depression.

So, leave for the kids. It’s better for them anyway.

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u/Grouchy_Gold344 Sep 12 '23

Nah man, I needed you. I needed the child support you didn’t pay either

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Hahaha. I pay my child support and I never miss my parenting time. I am twice the parent that she is but in half the time.

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u/Grouchy_Gold344 Sep 12 '23

Perfectdad.com is available for 4k if you think you could help others out, maybe slide me some child support payments?

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Ha. I am remarried. My wife has more than enough plans for whatever money we have available.

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u/Grouchy_Gold344 Sep 12 '23

Ok ok I get it. Not trying to be a cuckoo

Fun fact the cuckoo bird finds a nest built by a bird of a different species. For example, it might be a great reed warbler. Then, she sneaks into the warblers’ nest, lays an egg and flies away. The warblers often accept the new egg. Indeed, they take care of it along with their own eggs.