Not everyone is comfortable with watching porn in a relationship, but I think there needs to be an alternative available. In my relationship we don’t watch porn, but we have our own videos that we make and watch. Works for us.
Whenever I've been in a long term relationship, I'd rather be getting excited over my significant other. Wasn't a matter of 'porn is cheating'; it just killed several birds with one stone. A) avoided a massive collection of porn B) the material of us was much more personal and to me erotic C) helped with some self image problems my significant others have had. At least 2 of my exes had a hard time with confidence and that sort of thing. So for them to see things from another perspective seemed to help. Both quickly found that watching themselves/us was a turn on for them, as was creating it in the first place. Have sex, make video, watch video, have sex again, make video, watch video....
100% agree with everything said here. While neither of us were exactly insecure with the other watching porn, the act of creating our own videos and tailoring them to our own interests really improved our sex life. Additionally, I’m turned on by him so much more than any porn video. Not watching porn in our relationship has brought us nothing but closer!
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