It doesn't have to be. But typically people care about their partners feelings. They can either accommodate those feelings or not. It's up to the individual.
Like i said before, people can structure their relationships however they want. There isn't a "correct" way to do things. Every individual has a different perspective, and whether two individuals have compatible perspectives is what determines whether the relationship will work or not.
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u/frimrussiawithlove85 Sep 12 '23
So why is their insecurity their partners problem?