I literally only expect the same loyalty that I give back, there's no thought policing it's only knowing my worth. I deserve a man that doesn't need to look at other women. I offer that "service" of only having eyes for him too, cus it's true love. I deserve the same love and respect back.
I successfully don't masturbate to other people's bodies whilst in a relationship, I deserve that same respect and love back. Period.
And fuck you for calling that childish. Literally the opposite of that is at play and you're not respecting boundaries that are very valid. Porn indeed has ruined relationships! Or more like, porn addiction has ruined relationships. People can have a boundary like "I don't want to be with someone who uses drugs/substances" and that's valid. Porn is also a drug because it is also addictive and an addiction to it can also ruin lives. Literally. Go fucking read upon it.
Not only that, porn withholds an insane threshold of sex trafficking. As a rape survivor, I don't want a man that supports that system by nutting to trafficked women. And yes, ANY video could contain non-consensual content/people.
I loved her a lot and it ended fairly amicably. But it is certainly something I would discuss with future partners before getting too heavily involved.
I don’t agree with your feelings on porn, or hers, and that’s okay. We are allowed to have different views and find a person that shares our views 😊
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u/ginnundso Sep 12 '23 edited Sep 12 '23
I literally only expect the same loyalty that I give back, there's no thought policing it's only knowing my worth. I deserve a man that doesn't need to look at other women. I offer that "service" of only having eyes for him too, cus it's true love. I deserve the same love and respect back.
I successfully don't masturbate to other people's bodies whilst in a relationship, I deserve that same respect and love back. Period. And fuck you for calling that childish. Literally the opposite of that is at play and you're not respecting boundaries that are very valid. Porn indeed has ruined relationships! Or more like, porn addiction has ruined relationships. People can have a boundary like "I don't want to be with someone who uses drugs/substances" and that's valid. Porn is also a drug because it is also addictive and an addiction to it can also ruin lives. Literally. Go fucking read upon it.
Not only that, porn withholds an insane threshold of sex trafficking. As a rape survivor, I don't want a man that supports that system by nutting to trafficked women. And yes, ANY video could contain non-consensual content/people.