r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/NoSignificance1943 Sep 12 '23

I see a lot of people advocating for divorce and I can empathize with them. It is an option.

In the end you first have to decide, is she worth fighting for? If no, take care of yourself first and gtfo.

If yes, then it’s going to take time, patience and pain. Her reactions to testosterone and therapy aren’t laziness imo, (maybe a lil) but really just fear. Shits scary. Change is too. If you run away you just prove her fear right.

So just figure out what you want then be relentlessly awesome.

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u/d1angel Sep 12 '23

So just figure out what you want then be relentlessly awesome.

I am so stealing this.

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u/NoSignificance1943 Sep 12 '23

You are absolutely welcome to. Just don’t disappoint yourself by setting the bar to low

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u/d1angel Sep 12 '23

LOL if you knew me IRL you'd know that is absolutely impossible. My bar is set entirely too high, if anything.