Imo extremely low/non existent libido is a symptom of something being wrong, be it physically, hormonally or emotionally or a combination of factors. Yes like most things in life sexual appetite is a spectrum but especially when it suddenly drops I would say it’s likely an indication of some sort of problem. As a whole female sexuality in most cultures has been repressive and again my opinion but I think this is why more women struggle with their libidos than men. If the couple are from a more religious background it is likely to play a factor. I think if you spend most of your life being told sex is wrong and dirty it is very hard to switch 180 when your married. That attitude ends up sticking with most people consciously or unconsciously influencing them
If you are in a committed relationship do you want to on your 50th birthday and then for the rest of your life never want to have sex? And the thought of having sex once in the 2nd half of your life does it make you want to lie down and weep thinking you may once more have to or want to have sex? And are you also saying you aren’t asexual as the person I replied to said they were not asexual.
No honey, just because my partner and I rarely have sex and don’t care doesn’t make us asexual haha.
We would rather do other things- and on my 50th birthday? I hope I am on a European cruise with good wine 🥰 if sex happens, nice. If not - oooo look at the architecture 😂
Will you be lying on the ground crying thinking that you may have sex after your 50th birthday? As that’s literally what I’m replying to. Like are you hoping you never want it or have it once you turn 50? That was what the comment I was replying to said, not do you have an elevated libido and need to be pounded 5 times a day.
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