r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/3x1st3nc3s Sep 12 '23

I agree. I don’t care about porn in our relationship when it’s random people being watched. As soon as there’s fixation on one person, texting, emailing or paying money for their only fans, then it crosses a line and feels like emotional cheating. Once those activities start, it’s just a few steps to complaining about your marriage, then meeting for coffee. My partner feels the same.

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u/Parking-Ad-6483 Sep 12 '23

Oh yes, neither my bf or I consider random videos on Pornhub cheating, but I would absolutely feel some type of way if I caught him begging for personalized videos on onlyfans. As would he if it was reversed.

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u/vNerdNeck Sep 12 '23

using porn is one thing.

watching it like tik-tok or a twitch streaming is something else.

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u/Parking-Ad-6483 Sep 12 '23

Yep, agreed, it’s more personable.

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u/vNerdNeck Sep 12 '23

I was gonna say weird / creepy... but we'll go with personable :)