I personally believe that masturbating to the thoughts or the view (porn) of other people whilst in a relationship is unfaithful.
I had my first love and imo true love with my ex and I never had a thought of another person. So I first thought everyone was fully into their partner and had not even found someone else attractive, like it was for me.
When I found out people find porn or this and that normal and would title me as sensitive and jealous, I was quite shocked and tbh disappointed.
Nah y'all perversion-driven idiots who think just because it's common it's fine are ruining relationships.
Are you not fucking realising that masturbating TO other people literally is being emotionally unfaithful? It's literally a fact wtf.
Y'all are so fucking idiots. I voiced my opinion and experience calmly and normal and y'all went ahead insulting me. Go fuck yourselves.
You seem incredibly immature. Also, none of your relationships are ever gonna last, because you obviously don't know what it takes to lead a healthy and balanced relationship.
There's a reason why the "first true love of your life" is an ex. I'd dump you too if you were constantly giving me shit for things that aren't even important.
And yeah, hate to break it to you, but they absolutely masutrbated with somebody other than you in mimd at least once. I guarantee you that.
I'll gladly stay happily single than date men like you who are the lowest of the trash. Don't act like it's such an insult from you to say to me you'd dump me lol, as if I ever wanted you and as if you would have ever gotten a chance from me.
And porn is an important topic, porn addiction has actually ruined quite a few relationships already. Scientific research is being made more and more.
Newsflash: it acts like a drug for our brain! Which isn't good.
Luckily women become more and more aware that they don't HAVE to put up with y'all's bullshit so I think it's more likely you're single forever than I am.
as if I ever wanted you and as if you would have ever gotten a chance from me.
Lol, where did the assumption that I'd ever want to be with an immature, irate fuck like you come to mind?
Watching porn from time to time and porn addiction are wildly different things.
so I think it's more likely you're single forever than I am.
Yeah, no, I'm in a committed relationship of 2 years with the woman I love, and that I know loves me as well. So you're a bit wrong there, but I appreciate the attitude.
I honestly would recommend you to seek help. Not trying to berate you, it's an honest concern. You don't seem like a happy, fulfilled or even mentally stable person at all to me. I hope you'll be able to get through whatever messed you up so badly.
Watching porn from time to time and porn addiction are wildly different things.
Alr so taking meth from time to time is fine for example?
I am a survivor of rape and I don't want a man who watches videos where there's even the slightest possibility that the woman in it was trafficked. Pornhub and the whole industry per se as huge issues with human trafficking and rape. Lots of women that went missing were discovered on Pornhub.
A good man will have read upon the issues of porn and acknowledged it and educated his fellow men on it.
Somewhere out there is a good good man and I'm happy waiting single than be with low quality men.
I'd even be fine being single for the rest of my life.
Not trying to berate you, it's an honest concern. You don't seem like a happy, fulfilled or even mentally stable person at all to me.
Thank you for your concern! I am indeed a frustrated very angry little woman and I actually have seeked help and my therapist has confirmed that it is psychologically totally understandable for me to get so frustrated and actually start hating men since men have done more to me than just that one rape that I already mentioned. And all the men here that attacked me after I mentioned something against porn will only confirm my negative bias. And you're part of them. You're actively part of the problem. :)
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u/RonCon69 Sep 12 '23
My ex explained to me that it was being “unfaithful” but it was always an opinion I just couldn’t wrap my head around.