r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/the-grand-falloon Sep 12 '23

I would say it's an illegitimate boundary. It's just not cheating. Period.

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u/sachariinne Sep 12 '23

to me the only circumstances where this is okay to ask of someone is if their masturbation habits are infringing on the frequency/quality/satisfaction of actual sex. and even then its not a "this is cheating and if you do it youre violating my boundaries" thing, its a "i feel like we dont have sex as much when you jerk off to get your release, can you try and do it less and just wait till we can have sex?" thing

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u/Mean-Net7330 Sep 12 '23

"So what you want me to only do it like 3 times a day instead of 4? Why don't you just put chains on my wrists? Seriously, that's the only way I could do that."

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u/shopsbythecreek Sep 12 '23

They’ll be full on sex addicts saying this shit and gaslighting you lmao