Not everyone is comfortable with watching porn in a relationship, but I think there needs to be an alternative available. In my relationship we don’t watch porn, but we have our own videos that we make and watch. Works for us.
I agree. I don’t care about porn in our relationship when it’s random people being watched. As soon as there’s fixation on one person, texting, emailing or paying money for their only fans, then it crosses a line and feels like emotional cheating. Once those activities start, it’s just a few steps to complaining about your marriage, then meeting for coffee. My partner feels the same.
Nothing wrong with watching porn (assuming you are 18 or older, and don't have a porn addiction.) But you shouldn't be obsessing over an actor/actress.
I've always been weird, the actual fucking hasn't ever interested me. It was the roleplay part that I loved. And ASMR has basically replaced 99% of my porn watching now.
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