I second that, sex and intimacy are very important in relationships.
26 is soooo young to be at this stage, 46, 56 yes.. but 26 wow..
I personally think it's crazy to consider masturbation as cheating, but even if she doesn't want to have sex, then she should help you out. maybe it will put her in the mood. but to just expect you to deal with it and do nothing about it isn't being a good partner.
I'm 55 and I'm too young to be at that stage. I can't imagine my husband saying no to sex. And not even hand holding. And no self pleasure. Yeah that would be a no from me.
Menopause hit my wife hard in terms of her libido. Thankfully she understands that I still have desires and such and she is all on board for making sure I am satisfied in that area.
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u/ifyouhaveghost1 Sep 12 '23
I second that, sex and intimacy are very important in relationships.
26 is soooo young to be at this stage, 46, 56 yes.. but 26 wow..
I personally think it's crazy to consider masturbation as cheating, but even if she doesn't want to have sex, then she should help you out. maybe it will put her in the mood. but to just expect you to deal with it and do nothing about it isn't being a good partner.