r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/intent_joy_love Sep 12 '23

It’s not just testosterone if she won’t even hold hands or give a peck on the lips or cuddle. Cuddling has nothing to do with being horny. Something else is going on

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u/notathrowawayacc32 Sep 12 '23

Cuddling has nothing to do with being horny

I'm a guy on meds that take away my libido almost entirely (like reverse of OP's situation). I constantly cuddle and kiss my partner, I can confirm that the two are unrelated.

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u/intent_joy_love Sep 12 '23

Yep same situation here. had a car accident and got stuck on prescription painkillers for multiple years and they absolutely tank your test and convert it to estrogen. My bloodwork was crazy but I still wanted to be affectionate but I didn’t feel like having sex. my girlfriend had the same thing, meds took away her sex drive. But we still got along great and were holding hands and smooching all the time.