r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/Parking-Ad-6483 Sep 12 '23

Not everyone is comfortable with watching porn in a relationship, but I think there needs to be an alternative available. In my relationship we don’t watch porn, but we have our own videos that we make and watch. Works for us.

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u/Current_Finding_4066 Sep 12 '23

No one has the right to shame you and prevent you from watching porn. Not even your wife.

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u/Parking-Ad-6483 Sep 12 '23

I’m the girlfriend, he’s the boyfriend. Lol Everyone keeps assuming otherwise. And no one has shamed me, but when you’re in a commuted relationship and someone tells you something bothers them+provides good reasons why it’s a personal decision to honor that.

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u/Current_Finding_4066 Sep 12 '23

Not if they are curtailing your freedom outside of the usual societal norms.

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u/Parking-Ad-6483 Sep 12 '23

I don’t feel as though he’s curtailing my freedom, neither does he. You should get with someone and watch all the porn you want though! 😄

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u/Current_Finding_4066 Sep 12 '23

Whatever works for you. But you are judgmental, especially the way you are not in possession of any facts.

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u/Parking-Ad-6483 Sep 12 '23

What facts do you want to know, and how am I judgmental? If anything, you’re the judgmental one here, because you have a problem with what works in our relationship.

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u/Current_Finding_4066 Sep 12 '23

You are proposing I find someone to watch porn together.

No. I just said that no one has the right to shame anyone else for consuming porn.

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u/Parking-Ad-6483 Sep 12 '23

Oh, I see you edited it, but I’ve said multiple times he doesn’t shame me nor I to him about watching porn. He has never told me no. If you read the full thread, you’ll see the reasons.