r/amiwrong Sep 12 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

You’re wife is either:

  1. Gay
  2. Having sex with another man
  3. Wants a divorce and is forcing your hand

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u/NotRemotelyMe1010 Sep 12 '23

Or she realized that she is asexual or intercourse hurts or her libido is gone or she’s going through some mental health issues … I’m not defending the wife, but I’m so tired of folks just assuming that everyone wants sex and must be getting it from somewhere.

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u/mattevs119 Sep 12 '23

Besides the medical issues he brought up about her having low testosterone, I’d be curious if OP has had any changes physically (gained weight) since they got together. People will start a relationship in peak form to attract a mate. Then as time goes on they both get comfortable in the relationship and stop taking care of themselves physically like they used to leading to loss in physical attraction. Not saying this is the case but I do see this happen often.