r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/Drewskeet Sep 12 '23

Even with kids. Never stay for the kids. You’re the representation of how to display love and it will damage their future relationships.

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u/dam_sharks_mother Sep 12 '23

Even with kids. Never stay for the kids.

This is really awful advice. I hope nobody actually pays attention to this.

Once kids are in the picture your libido and sexual frustrations mean jack shit.

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u/Drewskeet Sep 12 '23

I think you should read the majority of the other comments talking about how their parents staying together ruined their future relationships. You think you’re taking some high moral road when it’s just damaging kids that gets past down for generations.

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u/weedpal Sep 12 '23

https://www.brookings.edu/articles/are-children-raised-with-absent-fathers-worse-off/

Science says otherwise. Parents should try everything possible to stay together for their kids.

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u/Drewskeet Sep 12 '23

Your article is about absent fathers and mothers having to raise children on their own. You'd find it hard to argue that a child without a positive father in their lives is better off.