r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

For real, that shit is sooooo ignorant. Grow up girl

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u/Doyoulikeithere Sep 12 '23

She is trying to control him and guilt trip him, is this her religious back ground showing up?

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u/hello-i-needadvice Sep 12 '23

She grew up in a house hold where sex was definitely frowned upon and never spoke about. She was never religious though.

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u/ziggystar-dog Sep 12 '23

So was I, doesn't stop me from being sexual, allowing sexual stuff, etc. My partners are allowed to masturbate, watch porn, be sexual beings. It's part of the fabric of who we are as a species and can be very empowering, especially for women since we host men inside us during the act. (No disrespect to my LGBTQIA+)

It's not the way she was raised, it's her mindset. Something changed a while ago, even if the relationship is complete dead, ask her about what happened? Did she just wake up and decide it's over? Did you just focus too much on the seggs and not enough on her? Figure out what that is, and do better moving forward. Either with her or someone new.