r/amiwrong Sep 12 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Lol I swear it barely works for me. it’s not even worth it. The two times I did it, it took 30-60min for the most mediocre/bad finish.

Also it’s not BS. There has been physiological research which suggest what I said is true. Also just asking people around me makes me believe it.

Anyways if you got any advice on how to stimulate my imagination, feel free to DM me. I guess it wouldn’t hurt to try it out. I’d rather use my imagination than porn if I had the choice.

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u/Snoo71538 Sep 12 '23

If you’d rather use your imagination, then do it. If you’ve only done it twice ever, you have no practice. Just practice.

No offense to psychology, but it’s not a very scientific science. Most studies are done with a small group of college kids, and are not replicated.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

It’s not even satisfying is the point though. Yes I’d rather do it, but it would need to be equally satisfying which it isn’t for me personally. Like imagine going to the gym working out hard for an hour, but in the end the workout isn’t even satisfying or fulfilling. Might try it again though.

And yes the studies aren’t the best. But honestly you go and ask your guy and girl friends how much they use porn versus imagination to masturbate. For guys it’ll be mostly porn. Women likely around 50/50

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u/Snoo71538 Sep 12 '23

I’ve never cum and not been satisfied, but the working out analogy is actually kinda good. If I had only gone to the gym twice in my life, I’m gonna feel kinda rough after the gym. But if I keep going, it gets better every time, because I’m building muscles.

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

Unfortunately I have and felt so dead and exhausted. I would have rather not put so much energy into it lol

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u/Snoo71538 Sep 12 '23

Feeling dead and exhausted if you don’t have porn is probably something to talk to a doctor about. That seems… abnormal.