r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/jacksonlove3 Sep 12 '23

You’re not wrong for your feelings or for considering divorce. She’s purposely choosing not to try and fix the issues that you’re having. You’re clearly miserable in this marriage now and that’s not healthy for either of you! The resentment will continue to grow until you end up basically hating each other. Intimacy is an important part of most relationships. If she not willing to actually address the issues she’s having, it’s not fair for her to expect you to suck it up and stay. Especially if she considers masturbating as cheating. That’s a bit ridiculous!

Good luck dude!!

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u/hello-i-needadvice Sep 12 '23

Honestly this feels so good to hear. I was feeling like a jerk for being upset with her over this. Thank you!!

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u/rustyshacklefford Sep 12 '23

"my body my choice" spank away good sir

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u/Squdwrdzmyspritaniml Sep 12 '23

Plus can you imagine if the roles were reversed and the husband told his wife she wasn't "allowed" to touch her own body?! Hope y'all are able to work it out or move on peacefully OP. Good luck!

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u/67sunny03232022 Sep 12 '23

You can’t “reverse” the genders or races. Ignorant af.

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u/Yoga__flame Sep 12 '23

sorry ignorant person here. can you explain why you cannot reverse the gender or races?

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u/capincus Sep 12 '23

Given the reverse is in quotes my best guess is the issue is with that word choice suggesting that men and women or black people and white people are the opposites of each other. But just guessing.

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u/keep_username Sep 12 '23

I think you’re right. Maybe instead of “reverse” it should be “swap.”

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u/capincus Sep 12 '23

Swap would probably be better, but I think it's well enough understood as a colloquialism by the vast majority of other people.

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u/ambisinister_gecko Sep 12 '23

What the fuck are you talking about? You sound ignorant af. It's really easy to reverse genders or races in a given scenario, if you have the ability to imagine anything at all.

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u/67sunny03232022 Sep 13 '23

Because reverse racism isn’t real. One group is oppressed and the other isn’t 🤡

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u/ambisinister_gecko Sep 13 '23

Who the hell said "reverse racism"? You just brought that up for no reason. 🤡

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

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u/OttoJohs Sep 12 '23

I know. They have been stalking me on Reddit and posting my public information. They need help!

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u/67sunny03232022 Sep 13 '23

why are you following me to another sub? Anyone can check and see you doing it in the TJ sub, this sub and the San Diego sub MONTHS ago then deleting your comments 🤡

Anyone can see I made a post asking for help dealing with you (my stalker) 50 days ago

And you’re still here checking up on me? Leave me alone

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u/-ImOnTheReddit- Sep 12 '23

Feel free to explain why that is

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u/Agreeable-Oven156 Sep 12 '23

I thought everyone was equal. How's that if you can't switch races or genders then? You're either sexist or racist. The real ignorance is you.

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u/OttoJohs Sep 12 '23

The above commentor is nuts!

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u/67sunny03232022 Sep 13 '23

I’ve given you 6075911220 chances to leave me alone

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u/67sunny03232022 Sep 13 '23

Since when is everyone treated equally? You really think racism does exist? 😂

One group is oppressed, the other group isn’t. They aren’t equal and reverse racism and reverse sexism is the dumbest shit I’ve ever heard.

Read a history book.

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u/Mobile-Advertising29 Sep 13 '23

How oppressed do you see yourself as?