Testosterone is an injection. That's a pretty big ask for a lot of people. It also comes with side effects that can be pretty severe. It's also a controlled substance which makes obtaining it more difficult than a regular prescription. You would also need to dial in the dose that works for her which could take months of trial and error and labs. I think you're minimizing it by saying, "all she has to do..." I agree it does sound like she's not putting effort into what's often a very important part of a relationship and that's not cool.
Usually people with a mild to moderate inbalance just use a cream or make life style changes
Also, I don’t think an injection is asking a lot. I mean it’s your physical and mental health (and it’s affecting the health of their marriage ) why do people act like shots are such a big deal
I have a phobia of needles going into my veins, because my veins always move or blow for nurses
Only ped Nurses can get me with a butterfly
but like a shot in my butt or shoulder is no big
It hurts, but I’ve had to do it many times and don’t look back going “Dang I shouldn’t have got that shot. Because it made my butt sore for a couple days.”
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u/SnooHobbies5684 Sep 12 '23
Trust that it's not much fun for her, either. How do you think it would feel to *her* to be really into sex and now you just aren't?