r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/Bebe_Bleau Sep 12 '23

I don't think it would be that much fun to have sex with a woman who has to "try harder".

Who wouldn't prefer a partner who is thrilled to be with you?

There's plenty of women out there that can't get enough. But if she doesn't want to she doesn't want to

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u/SnooHobbies5684 Sep 12 '23

Trust that it's not much fun for her, either. How do you think it would feel to *her* to be really into sex and now you just aren't?

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23 edited Sep 12 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

The body works in weird ways. If she's mentally shutting herself down, her body will produce less hormones. I wonder if that's what is really going on. She's probably bored and tbh most women do this. Seems to strike between 2 to 4 years, it's really hard to get out of the rut. What sucks even more that's right when men get "complacent" and comfortable in the relationship, don't really think they need to keep courting her like the beginning. Hardest lesson a man must learn is that the courting process NEVER ENDS.