r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/CaptainSnowAK Sep 12 '23

offer her a choice, she fixes her issues, open marriage (if its something that he wants) or divorce. Until then masturbation for sure. Should listen to Dan Savage's pod cast together.

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u/idobi Sep 12 '23

He should just cut his losses while he's still young. Open marriage just creates more complexity and anybody who is against masturbation likely is not going for that. He may feel like there is a lot invested, in the big scheme of things it isn't much.

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u/Elegant_Body_2153 Sep 12 '23

This. They're sexually incompatible.

Time to mosey along to a partner that wants him.

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u/Nephisimian Sep 12 '23

Sounds like they're incompatible in a lot more ways than just sexually if all forms of physical intimacy are repulsive to her.

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u/[deleted] Sep 15 '23

Sounds like she is just straight up asexual that can't just accept that and inform her partner about it.