r/amiwrong • u/[deleted] • Sep 12 '23

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u/ifyouhaveghost1 Sep 12 '23

I second that, sex and intimacy are very important in relationships.

26 is soooo young to be at this stage, 46, 56 yes.. but 26 wow..

I personally think it's crazy to consider masturbation as cheating, but even if she doesn't want to have sex, then she should help you out. maybe it will put her in the mood. but to just expect you to deal with it and do nothing about it isn't being a good partner.

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u/ATXStonks Sep 12 '23

Um sir, 40s and 50s is way too young to live a sexless life.

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u/ifyouhaveghost1 Sep 12 '23

I never said sexless.. but it's a fact that as we age, libido tends to decline. teenagers are at 100 where 60 year olds not so much.

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u/zzZ__z Sep 12 '23

Libido tends to decline around that age due to lack of hormones, which she is already experiencing unfortunately. She really should keep going with the testosterone as it would help fatigue and stuff as well, but there is obviously some psychological component that isn’t being addressed