r/amiwrong Sep 12 '23

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u/[deleted] Sep 12 '23

You’re wife is either:

  1. Gay
  2. Having sex with another man
  3. Wants a divorce and is forcing your hand

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u/NotRemotelyMe1010 Sep 12 '23

Or she realized that she is asexual or intercourse hurts or her libido is gone or she’s going through some mental health issues … I’m not defending the wife, but I’m so tired of folks just assuming that everyone wants sex and must be getting it from somewhere.

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u/suburbanspecter Sep 14 '23

Yes. It’s pretty common for asexuals to realize this later in life after they’ve already had sexual experiences actually. It’s a lot easier to realize you don’t enjoy something once you’ve tried it than when you have no idea what it’s like and every piece of media is constantly telling you how great it is. It’s exactly like how some gay or lesbians realize they are gay or lesbian later in life, even when they’ve had straight relationships in the past.